is there ever a moment, even when your child has history's worst case of "the mommies," that it is OK to hold her while you're using the toilet? and i do mean, USING the toilet.
apparently, the answer to that question is yes.
Aiming for progress, not perfection.
"...being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you
will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus."